"Attachment is a deep and enduring
emotional bond that connects one
person to another across time and
space (Ainsworth, 1973, Bolby, 1969)."
How we connect with ourselves,
others, and God is VITAL for our
lives and how we live.
How is your attachment? Take a few
minutes to watch this video clip and
skim this list of references. Click on
the link(s) below to reference your
area of interest.
Resource: Attachment from Simply Psychology
More videos: Childhood 1 * Childhood 2 * Criticism * Love Style *
Educational Q&A: sreynolds@reynoldsper.com
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